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You're Beautiful

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You're Beautiful

This blog is inspired by the song “You’re Beautiful” by Phil Wickham.             While I was getting ready to head to the office this morning, looking in the mirror at the blank slate in front of me, an amazing song came on Pandora that spoke thoughts out loud. Phil Wickham sings that he sees God’s power in the moonlit night, he is amazed at the light of the stars, and it all proclaims how beautiful God is. My mind began to travel outside to my yard. My Amaryllis have FINALLY bloomed, those of you that don’t know about this...

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Marriage: Mission Statement

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Marriage: Mission Statement

              Dream with me for just a minute or two. Imagine you are a highly successful business person. You own a fortune 500 company. This company is voted best place to work in all the world. When you pull into the parking lot there is a space with your name on it. You have your own office with a downtown, ocean or mountain view, or all 3. Your employees actually smile while telling you good morning. The office is always tidy and clean, and the air smells like the great outdoors. It runs like...

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Client Letter to Self: Lost Innocence

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Client Letter to Self: Lost Innocence

             Several months ago a new client walked into my office. He was in his 30’s and unemployed, an associate had worked with him several sessions regarding career goals and the issue of Pornography came up. He was referred to me because it was naturally affecting his marriage and other relationships. During the 3rd individual session I challenged him to write a letter to himself as a child attempting to change his perception. You see, he was only 10 when his curiosity took hold of him and he popped in a VHS tape he had...

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Relationship: How is your engine running?

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Relationship: How is your engine running?

               After attending a conference entitled, “Sex Made Simple”, I have realized sex is complicated. No refund, I sat through all 8 hours of the conference and bought the book. Dr. McCarthy attempted to make it as simple as possible but anything involving two people and gears is anything but simple. If you are like me, activities involving a motor gives you an instant headache and glassy eyes. Thankfully my husband can fix anything, more gears the better. Let me explain how sex and gears go together.                 According to Dr. McCarthy, there are...

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Marriage: Do you like to read?

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Marriage: Do you like to read?

           What if marriage is like a book? When you get married you begin in the middle of a newly printed book. Can you smell the pages? Do you feel the crispness as you open the cover? If you are an e-reader, go to the bookstore and experience this.  In my opinion, it is right up there with a new pair of socks and freshly washed sheets. It may even top fresh hot vanilla creamer with a little bit of coffee. Lay the book in front of you on your wedding day and you begin to...

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